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I've been feeling vulnerable. I know that most of it is on my mind...but lately, my body is making me feel vulnerable. I'm 39 now, and being 40 is a barrier that makes me anxious. Am I having a "Mid Life Crisis"? Maybe... Could it be just a "Life Style" adaptation that I need to [...]


Cracked Inside


Today I feel cracked inside. I had a rough night, not been able to sleep well because I had a call from my Mother in law. It was 2:30 in the morning, I´m half asleep, my wife took the call... "Mom, what is the matter? What!...  you fell!?" Mother in law had fallen on her [...]


Fight or Flight Work?


I just lied to her. In a few seconds I had just given her a full story of how I mixed everything up. With this background my failure wasn´t that bad, since I had given the document on time. I told my coworker a lie, that sadly saved my a$$. I told her I was [...]


I just love Sufism, goes to the point, and shows you what the point really is.   "Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates: At the first gate, ask yourself, 'Is it true?' At the second gate ask, 'Is it necessary?' At the third gate ask, 'Is it kind?'" - Sufi saying [...]


Stay away from Zombie Love


I have. You suddenly believe that you can´t live without that person. You know they are "special"; it does not matter if your friends find them "horrible, disgusting, fat, whatever...You; can care less about it. They complete you, without doing anything, just by being THEM." When that happens, you know you are screwed...deeply madly in love SCREWED! [...]


Yes; You Can!


Yes. You can.  Not everything is good for you, but you can do it. Let´s not get into illegal stuff. This post is NOT for that thinking. You are here at Sight For Sore Eyes Blog, and here we THINK POSITIVE and ACT GOOD. We do the good stuff, remember? We love doing what is [...]


What’s wrong with love?


This week I've had a pretty busy week at my private practice. I've had four new patients, and all four non related to each other in any way, have come to see me for the same reason. THE SAME reason. LOVE. What is the real reason... a breakup! All of them had gone through a tough [...]


If you Love Yourself

If you love yourself, you will be surprised- others will love you. Nobody loves a person who does not love himself.

Love comes from inside...not from the outside. Stop seeking love in another person. Almost everyone with love problems I see in my therapy practice, have trouble with themselves. The significant OTHER is just a reflection of themselves. They are merely the mirror, but you are the one casting on the mirror whatever you have inside. [...]


I’m Back! I hope…


“People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a miracle. But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on water or in thin air, but to walk on earth. Every day we are engaged in a miracle which we don't even recognize: a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the [...]


5 No´s You Better Start Saying


"A human being has a natural desire to have more of a good thing than he needs." - Mark Twain Some people say Yes more often than No. Even if they want to say NO, they end up saying YES. I am one of them. I tend to say Yes to everyone. When they want [...]