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Yes; You Can!


Yes. You can.  Not everything is good for you, but you can do it. Let´s not get into illegal stuff. This post is NOT for that thinking. You are here at Sight For Sore Eyes Blog, and here we THINK POSITIVE and ACT GOOD. We do the good stuff, remember? We love doing what is [...]


What’s wrong with love?


This week I've had a pretty busy week at my private practice. I've had four new patients, and all four non related to each other in any way, have come to see me for the same reason. THE SAME reason. LOVE. What is the real reason... a breakup! All of them had gone through a tough [...]


If you Love Yourself

If you love yourself, you will be surprised- others will love you. Nobody loves a person who does not love himself.

Love comes from inside...not from the outside. Stop seeking love in another person. Almost everyone with love problems I see in my therapy practice, have trouble with themselves. The significant OTHER is just a reflection of themselves. They are merely the mirror, but you are the one casting on the mirror whatever you have inside. [...]


I’m Back! I hope…


“People usually consider walking on water or in thin air a miracle. But I think the real miracle is not to walk either on water or in thin air, but to walk on earth. Every day we are engaged in a miracle which we don't even recognize: a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the [...]


5 No´s You Better Start Saying


"A human being has a natural desire to have more of a good thing than he needs." - Mark Twain Some people say Yes more often than No. Even if they want to say NO, they end up saying YES. I am one of them. I tend to say Yes to everyone. When they want [...]


"We do not attract what we want, But what we are. - James Allen" Lately I´ve been having a tough week. I have felt that I don´t have time for myself. It is true... I don´t have time for myself. I have to go to work, 8 hours, then I usually see my Private practice [...]


Finding Balance in An Unbalanced World


I´ve been having a hard time lately, trying to find myself. Maybe it´s been a critical self-finding time for me. Who am I? Do I really know?... Do I care? I think I do. Lately I´ve been having a hard time with myself, and now I get it. I was trying to find my balance, [...]


A New Approach to Life – Becoming Minimalist


" I used to think that minimalism was limited to an overabundance of tangible goods and removing unnecessary things from our lives. There was a part of me that thought getting rid of everything you dont need or use inside your home was the definition of being a minimalist." - Brian Gardner of No Sidebar [...]

Who pays the Ferryman

Today I had car trouble. I speak a lot here on my blog about Habits, and Habit Change, but I am awful with the habit of keeping in good condition my car. I don´t know why...but I suck at taking care of my car. Well I was driving my family back home... I had a [...]


The Top 3 Excuses for Not Chasing Your Dream


Lately I´ve been wondering if I´m chasing my dream... or if I´m actually chasing nothing. It feels sometimes like I´m doing nothing. It´s always like that... You start with determination, apply force to what you want, execute... execute...more execution, and NOTHING. Still nothing... but it´s your dream. Finally, you start seeing rewards. Most people don´t [...]